Patience
Ok so blogging is completely new for us and I am asking all of you to hang in there till we get all the kinks figured out! I thought I could start blogging about Keegan instead of using his Caringbridge site since he has seemed to move past (hopefully for good) most of his medical problems and we can now focus on keeping him healthy and giving 100% for all of his ongoing therapies. More to come in the future!!!
Welcome to Holland
I am often asked to describe the experience of raising a child with a disability-to try to help people who have not shared that unique experience to understand it, to imagine how it would feel. It's like this...
When you're going to have a baby it's like planning a fabulous vacation to Italy. You buy a bunch of guide books and make your wonderful plans. The Coliseum, The Michelangelo David, the Gondolas in Venice, you may learn some handy phrases in Italian. It's all very exciting.
After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives. You pack your bags and off you go. Several hours later the plane lands. The stewardess comes in and says Welcome to Holland.Holland?!? you say. What do you mean Holland? I signed up for Italy! I'm supposed to be in Italy. All my life I have dreamed of going to Italy.But there has been a change in the flight plan. They've landed in Holland and there you must stay.
The important thing is they haven't taken you to a horrible, disgusting, filthy place, full of pestilence, famine and disease. It's just a different place.So you must go out and buy new guide books. And you must learn a new language. And you will meet a whole new group of people you would have never met.It's just a different place. It's slower paced than Italy, less flashy than Italy. But after you have been there for a while and catch your breath, you look around....and you begin to notice that Holland has windmills...and Holland has tulips...Holland even has Rembrandts.
But everyone you know is coming and going from Italy...and they're all bragging about the wonderful time they had there. And for the rest of your life you are going to say Yes, that's where I was supposed to go. That's what I had planned.And the pain of that will never, ever, ever ,ever go away...because the loss of that dream is very, very significant loss.But, if you spend the rest of your life mourning the fact that you didn't get to Italy, you may never be free to enjoy the very special, very lovely things...about Holland.
By Emily Pearl Kingsley 1987
2 comments:
God Bless every day of your lives!! I love to read about Keegans days. Please keep blogging! Love to you Ames!
Yaaa, so glad you joined the blog world. :) I like it much better then carepages. Glad to hear that Keegan is doing well in his therapies. He is such a CUTIE!!!!
Kristin and Gavin
http://gavincannon.blogspot.com
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